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Post by - on Apr 15, 2005 22:29:23 GMT -5
I say what I mean
And I mean what I say
But I never meant to hurt anyone
In any way.
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Post by webmistress on Apr 15, 2005 22:46:06 GMT -5
I have had a stressful week... not enough sleep...thanks to TheGimp...  contract negotiations... getting this thing going on the fly for the webdominatrix... the fear of a backlash... I was hopeing people would see this as a good place, a place where you can come and just talk about bullshit without junking up the other message board... A place where you can tell TH to eat turds without worrying that a lost struggling parent would see it...  I am sorry GH, I am sorry you were treated that way... I am also pissed >:(because I don't like people fucking with my friends, but what am I going to do about it? Nothing. I will just be here to listen so you canget out what you want... and on and on it goes |
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Post by IDBUG on Apr 15, 2005 23:58:43 GMT -5
You guys are all brave. If we're considered "traitors" or something for asking questions and/or posting here, it only proves the points on the main page of this site.
As victims of a cult and unethical practices, we are naturally suspicious of similar practices, and we are naturally wary of something similar happening again.
To ask questions is essential, in my opinion. It's important for us to not stay quiet if we have such questions. We sat back and took bullshit as truth for too long, and we don't want to be fooled again. We sat back and let people push us down and trash us for speaking our minds, and we don't want to allow that to happen again.
I have another post I've been sitting on for a few weeks, since a couple of days before the ontheemmis site went down. I was going to post it anonymously, but since GH was so brave, I'll follow her example and post it here in a few minutes. I think that I have been very respectful of the webmasters at ontheemmis, and I am still grateful for what they started, but I think it's very telling that I was afraid to post my feelings at all.
I will post more on this later... I still need to sort out my thoughts some more.
Thanks, guys, for giving me a forum in which to express them.
--T
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Post by webdominatrix on Apr 16, 2005 0:13:30 GMT -5
And this is why I wanted this site to come into being. Because of posts like this. I hope you three felt good, saying what you needed to say without fear of being publicly called out over a difference in opinion and made to feel like it was purpose all over again. This does my heart proud and I'm glad you felt you had to freedom to say what you needed to say. If people are uncomfortable with the implications, then maybe there's a reason for that. I know I hate it when I'm told I'm doing something shitty that I don't want to awknowledge or have brought to light. It's uncomfortable and it sucks, but it's also neccessary if you want to be a real human being who learns from, ADMITS TO, and then realizes what they've done wrong and goes about changing it.
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