has anyone...

[webmistress]

been in a relationship with someone who works 10 hour graveyard shifts before?
I am fucking dieing...
I have a wedding to plan, and he is always sleeping and too tired to help, but wants me to include him on the plans...
seriously he is getting dressed for work while I am falling asleep and he comes home after I have left for work...
My fucking fiance' is a illusion.
When we do happen to be awake at the same time, he wants to watch t.v. (granted he never gets to) but I want to talk and hang out and figure out this fucking wedding shit....

p.s.
weddings suck moms suck. family sucks.

[mzdiagnosed]

My now husband was out of town A LOT (because of his job) when I planned our wedding. I was frustrated about it and bitched about it often enough but when it came down to it, everything worked out and I was glad that I had the major say in the decisions that had to be made. It's just a stressful thing to handle either way I think but it was the best thing I've ever done and our friends still talk about what a kick ass and personal celebration it was. Hang in there!